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Parents Killed 17 Year Old Daughter | She Refused to Marry

Shafilea Ahmed tragically met her demise at the hands of her parents in an “honour-based” killing within the confines of their family home near Warrington, Cheshire. The heart-wrenching incident occurred when she courageously refused to submit to a forced marriage.

In the aftermath of Shafilea’s untimely death, her parents, Iftikhar and Farzana Ahmed, insincerely displayed their grief for several years. Shafilea, described as an “able, ambitious girl,” harbored aspirations of becoming a lawyer but found herself torn between two distinct cultures.

Her birth date, July 14, has now become an annual “Day of Memory” to commemorate all those who have lost their lives due to “honour” abuse.

Both the police and Savera UK, a prominent charity dedicated to ending abuse, attended a moving vigil in Shafilea’s memory near Warrington, Cheshire. During this solemn occasion, a minute’s silence was observed, as reported by Manchester Evening News.

Shafilea grew up in Warrington and tragically lost her life there on September 11, 2003, precisely two decades ago from today. For nine years, Iftikhar and Farzana evaded punishment until 2012 when they were eventually convicted of murder after a trial. Subsequently, they received life sentences at Chester Crown Court.

Speaking at the vigil over the weekend, Afrah Qassim, the CEO and founder of Savera UK, expressed, “It has been twenty years since Shafilea’s life was taken from her, simply because she desired to make her own choices in life. This behavior holds no ‘honour’ and no justification for abuse.”

“Although progress has been made in the last two decades, there are still an estimated 12 to 15 ‘honour’ killings in the UK each year, and tens of thousands more are harmed due to honour-based abuse and harmful practices. Public and professional awareness of these issues is still limited, and they can impact anyone regardless of ethnicity, background, gender identity, or sexuality. As a community, it is our shared responsibility to put an end to these practices once and for all.”

Iftikhar, a taxi driver, and Farzana, a housewife, adamantly denied any involvement in their daughter’s tragic fate. However, during the trial, Shafilea’s sister, Alesha, bravely confessed to witnessing the gruesome act and struggling under the burden of keeping it a secret. According to Alesha’s testimony, their parents forced Shafilea onto a settee and asphyxiated her with a plastic bag.

After Shafilea’s disappearance, her decomposed remains were discovered in the River Kent in Cumbria in February 2004, months after her initial report as missing. Her parents appeared on live television at the time, feigning grief and asserting their innocence regarding her vanishing and death.

Previously, in February 2003, Shafilea ran away just before she was to be forced into an unwanted marriage in Pakistan. Desperate for assistance, she sought help from social services to find a place to live. In her application, she disclosed enduring regular domestic violence since the age of 15, stating, “One parent would hold me whilst the other hit me. I was prevented from attending college and my part-time job. I was frightened enough to run away and scared to go back to my parents.”

Her poignant words were instrumental in convicting her parents posthumously. During her time in Pakistan, Shafilea reportedly declined a marriage proposal from a cousin, further expressing her strong desire to live life on her own terms.

While in Pakistan, she also suffered the consequences of ingesting bleach, causing severe issues with eating, drinking, and swallowing. Upon the family’s return to Warrington, Shafilea was rushed to the hospital. Her family attributed the incident to an accidental ingestion of bleach, as it had been stored in a reused mouthwash bottle.

During her hospitalization, Shafilea’s weight dwindled to a mere five stone, and four months later, she went missing. The court learned that her murder ensued from a heated disagreement over her choice of western attire, a simple T-shirt and tight trousers.

In delivering their verdict, trial judge Mr. Justice Roderick Evans addressed Iftikhar and Farzana, stating, “Your concern about being shamed in your community was greater than the love for your child.”

As we remember Shafilea and her tragic story, we must recommit ourselves to eradicating abuse and honour-based violence, so that no one else has to suffer a similar fate.

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